Relationships are challenging. Relationships need ongoing effort and commitment. It also doesn't get any easier with time, despite what everyone tells us. If anything, as we get older, it probably gets harder. OP and his wife have been together for almost ten years and have two lovely children. They undoubtedly went through their fair share of highs and lows during the course of their relationship, but no matter how difficult things got, they never gave up on each other. So, despite their occas…