“You're not ‘choosing plants over him,’ he's the one creating the ‘choice’—and in this case, the choice is whether he supports your healthy, reasonable hobby/coping tool or not.”
“I think there’s something that goes on in a man’s brain when he’s broke that makes him feel deeply insecure and those insecurities seep out into other areas of his life and his relationship—especially if the woman is better off financially than him.”