Ladies, have you ever been on a really sh*tty date with a man and wished you were home with your cat instead? Have you ever wasted your good years on a man who couldn't, and frankly wouldn't commit? Do you ever wish you hadn't swiped right to that guy on Tinder who ended up giving you the worst sex of your life? If the answer to any of those is yes, then check out the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, which allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. We've teamed up with them to bring you a fresh collection of letters each week, naming and shaming the disappointing men out there. And who knows, they might even inspire you to write in one of your own!
They say honesty is the best policy; however, it's not always easy to tell someone face-to-face how you feel after they've hurt or disappointed you. Especially when it comes to love. But the need for closure is real, and sometimes it's easier to write a letter, text, or email to the d-bag who screwed you over, letting them know what you think of them. And if that message was public, for the world (aka, for his friends, or even his mom), to see, it might feel even more cathartic.
Now, you can do that with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram page that allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we bring you the latest letters women have submitted, and each collection is as funny as the last. Check out this week's haul, and then head over to last week's for some more laughs.
2020 might have been a nightmare of a year, but it's certainly given us some good stories when it comes to relationships. With ghosting at an all-time high, quarantine dating becoming the norm (aka, surviving on copious amounts of phone sex), and people generally not knowing what's going on anymore, the stories keep coming. But nothing makes a sh*tty year even more sh*tty than letting a f*ckboy into your life and him inevitably screwing you over (pun intended).
So why not name and shame him, using To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — the Instagram account where women submit open letters to the disappointing men they've been romantically involved with. It's not quite the same as turning up at his house in the middle of the night with a mob of angry men in tow, but who knows; it might just give you the closure you need.
Dating in 2020 has been somewhat of a nightmare all round. But throw a f*ckboy into the mix, and it's a disaster of epic proportions. Speaking of f*ckboys, we're back with the latest batch of letters that women have written to the disappointing men they've dated, courtesy of To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated. Welcome to the Instagram account by and for women, containing letters that frustrated women have penned to the men letdowns they've been romantically involved with. Scroll down and read some of the shocking things that men have tried to get away with during 2020. Let the naming and shaming begin!
It's time for your latest haul of scathing letters written by women to the disappointing men they've dated, or at least kinda dated. Because let's be honest, the word 'dating' nowadays doesn't mean much. And based on these letters, it means guys being total d*cks and trying to get away with it. But women aren't putting up with this poor behavior any longer, and it's time to name and shame. Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, we bring you the letters submitted by women to the sh*t shows they've dated, which you'll either relate to or make you feel grateful for being single. Or, thankful for the stable, good guy you're with (aren't you lucky!) Enjoy these letters and then check out last week's in case you missed them.
As if 2020 couldn't get more disappointing, throwing a couple of d-bags into the mix can only make it worse. Because what's more depressing than a modern-day Casanova a*hole who makes a woman feel like crap? Probably not much. Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram account by and for women, containing letters that frustrated women have penned to the disappointing guys they've dated — we bring you the latest haul of these scathing letters. If they weren't so funny, they would be heartbreaking, but they give a true insight into the shtshow that is modern dating.
Picture the scene: you're on a date with a hilarious, kind, smart, ambitious, and romantic gentleman. He buys the drinks, and you flirt relentlessly all night. He walks you home afterward and gives you the best kiss of your life. Oh, and he doesn't even try his luck asking to come inside for a quicky. He texts you on his way home, excitedly planning date number two. You're in love and all is good in the world.
OK, just kidding. What really happened, is your less-than-average date either picked his nose in front of you, stared at your boobs all night, and then ghosted you. Or at least two out of the three. Wouldn't it be nice to give the pr*ck a piece of your mind and tell him just how much of a disappointment he was? He's already blocked you, too late. Or is it? How about submitting the letter to To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram account by and for women, containing letters that frustrated women have penned to the disappointing guys they've dated. We've partnered with them to bring you the funniest letters that women have submitted after their dating disasters, so that you can feel slightly better about the crappy date you went on last night.
When it comes to dating, it's a harsh world out there. There are tens of psychos, weirdos, and freaks to sift through for every normal guy you meet, and it's natural to get deflated when you waste your time one of these idiots. After a bad experience, they say that journaling can be a therapeutic way of releasing any negative feelings you may hold towards a person. And what better way to do that than via a public journal of shame that the disappointing man in question may see? Or, at least, his mom. Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram account by and for women, containing letters that frustrated women have penned to the disappointing guys they've dated — we're back with another collection of letters. They're just as funny as the last lot, so scroll through and enjoy.
Have you ever been on a hilarious, horrific, or cringe-worthy date? We assume the answer is yes, because, well, who hasn't? How nice would it have been to tell the douchebag in the question exactly what you thought of him? Of course, some women choose to dish out a harsh truth after an awful date, but it's not worth the emotional energy for others. Because let's face it - a man taking constructive criticism post-date? Hard to imagine. We've teamed up with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated - An Instagram account created by women, for women, who submit letters containing all the things they've always wanted to say to the disappointing men they've dated. Scroll through this week's haul and then check out last week's in case you missed them.
The world of dating can be fun and entertaining, but sometimes, it also kind of sucks. We've all been excited over a guy who seemed (almost) perfect on paper, but who ended up being a massive letdown in reality. Whether it's the a**hole who tries convincing you to have a threesome with him and his wife or the guy with offensive table manners, the result is always the same—crushing disappointment. Wouldn't it be great if, instead of sending the standard, "lovely meeting you, but it's not going to work out" text, you could pen a brutally candid, scathing message, telling him exactly what you thought of him? Because honesty is the best type of closure, amirite?
Well now, you can— sort of. We've teamed up with the popular Instagram account, To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, who publish funny and real letters of disappointment from girls to their "exes." Together, we will bring you a weekly haul of all the ugly truths that women wish they could have said to the losers they were in relationships with or briefly dated. And who knows; maybe one of those guys will spot their name, read the letters and learn from their mistakes. But probably not.
We've teamed up with the popular Instagram account, To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, who publish funny and real letters of disappointment from girls to their "exes." Together, we bring you a weekly collection of messages women have submitted about the freak-shows they dated, expressing all the things they wish they could have said to them. From the guys who take your virginity and don't call you back, to the creeps who flirt with your mom, men find new and creative ways to disappoint each time. Scroll through this week's hilarious letters and then check out last week's, just in case you missed them.
In case you didn't catch the first two segments of our new series, we've teamed up with the popular Instagram account, To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated. Together, we bring you a weekly collection of letters that women have written to the sorry excuses of men they dated. From the long term boyfriends to the one-or-two-date guys, these are the words of disappointment that women wish they could have said in person, for fear of them falling on deaf ears. Instead, they put them out to the universe (AKA, on Instagram), and maybe, just maybe, the guys will read them there, do some soul searching and change their ways. Unlikely though. Anyway, here are the latest letters for you to look through and chuckle at, and here are last week's just in case you missed them.
