I think I speak for most people when I say dating in 2020 has been an all-round sh*tty experience. I mean, as if the logistics of socially-distance dating or the nightmare of figuring out how to bubble up with your f*ck buddy during a pandemic wasn't stressful enough. When you throw some idiot men into the mix, and you've got yourself a whole new level of 2020 dumpster fire. Luckily, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated is here to the rescue. They help women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the exes or almost exes who have disappointed them in some way, by naming and shaming them online. So ladies, if a certain f*ck boy has f*cked you over one too many times (and let's face it, one time is too many), then write them a letter and hope their mom or current girlfriend sees it. Here's to karma being a b*tch, and to the end of 2020.
Have you ever dated a man who was, how can I put this, less than satisfactory? Someone you wouldn't recommend to a friend, no matter how desperate that friend was? Well, then you're in good company because welcome to being a woman. And if you ever wanted to let those men know how short-changed you felt after dating them, then welcome to the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated. They help women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week we bring you a fresh batch of letters from women who wish to name and shame these men, giving them the karma they deserve.
Nowadays, finding a decent man can be a challenge. Between the f*ck 's boys, the guys with commitment issues, the mommy's boys, and the straight-up liars, women find themselves in a constant state of frustration. Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Together with them, we bring you a weekly collection of letters from these women, helping them name and shame their disappointing man. Here are this week's letters.
In today's modern dating sh*t show, it's important to take as much control as you can. To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated is the Instagram account that helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we post a weekly collection of letters from these women, helping in the naming and shaming process. Because if there's one thing we hate, it's a f*ck boy. And if there's one thing we love, it's supporting women to live their best lives. Welcome to this week's haul, which is just as funny, savage, and slightly heartbreaking as the last.
If I could sum up 2020 in one word, it would be "disappointing." And nothing makes a bad year worse than a bunch of f*ck boys who screw you over (see what I did there?) and break your heart. Ladies, the time has come to name and shame all the men out there who have made you lose hope in dating, love, and, quite frankly, the universe. Instagram account 'To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated' helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them somehow. And let's be honest, it's not that hard for a man to disappoint a woman. Here is this week's selection of hilarious, brutal, and slightly heartbreaking letters that might inspire you to write your own.
The concept of getting closure is a funny thing. Don't get me wrong; everyone wants to move on after a relationship ends. Being free of any residual emotional attachment or pain is essential in achieving this (speaking from A LOT of experience). But there are many ways to accomplish this, ranging from sitting back and letting karma do its thing to angrily keying your exes car. Nestled healthily somewhere in the middle of those two ends of the spectrum is shaming your disappointing ex-boyfriend on Instagram for the world (and hopefully their moms) to see. That's right, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated allows women to get the closure they need by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we feature a new batch of these hilarious letters for your viewing pleasure. Scroll through, laugh at these ladies' expenses, and then head over to last week's in case you missed them.
Ladies, have you ever been on a really sh*tty date with a man and wished you were home with your cat instead? Have you ever wasted your good years on a man who couldn't, and frankly wouldn't commit? Do you ever wish you hadn't swiped right to that guy on Tinder who ended up giving you the worst sex of your life? If the answer to any of those is yes, then check out the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, which allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. We've teamed up with them to bring you a fresh collection of letters each week, naming and shaming the disappointing men out there. And who knows, they might even inspire you to write in one of your own!
Since the dawn of time, men have been screwing women over. And I don't mean leaving them sexually satisfied kind of screw. I'm talking about sleeping with them and not calling them back, sort of screw. But, we aren't in the dawn of time anymore, and women no longer have to depend on men to hunt for food and provide for the family while putting up with all sorts of crappy behavior. Now, women are taking back the reigns and calling men out for their bullsh*t, as publically as possible. And what is more public than writing a personalized letter of shame and putting it on Instagram for the world (which hopefully includes his mom) to see?
Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — the Instagram page that allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way — we bring you the latest haul of goodies. Scroll through these hilarious letters of disappointment and get an insight into the shitshow that is modern-day dating. And then check out last week's haul for some more dating debacles.
They say honesty is the best policy; however, it's not always easy to tell someone face-to-face how you feel after they've hurt or disappointed you. Especially when it comes to love. But the need for closure is real, and sometimes it's easier to write a letter, text, or email to the d-bag who screwed you over, letting them know what you think of them. And if that message was public, for the world (aka, for his friends, or even his mom), to see, it might feel even more cathartic.
Now, you can do that with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram page that allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we bring you the latest letters women have submitted, and each collection is as funny as the last. Check out this week's haul, and then head over to last week's for some more laughs.
2020 might have been a nightmare of a year, but it's certainly given us some good stories when it comes to relationships. With ghosting at an all-time high, quarantine dating becoming the norm (aka, surviving on copious amounts of phone sex), and people generally not knowing what's going on anymore, the stories keep coming. But nothing makes a sh*tty year even more sh*tty than letting a f*ckboy into your life and him inevitably screwing you over (pun intended).
So why not name and shame him, using To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — the Instagram account where women submit open letters to the disappointing men they've been romantically involved with. It's not quite the same as turning up at his house in the middle of the night with a mob of angry men in tow, but who knows; it might just give you the closure you need.
Dating in 2020 has been somewhat of a nightmare all round. But throw a f*ckboy into the mix, and it's a disaster of epic proportions. Speaking of f*ckboys, we're back with the latest batch of letters that women have written to the disappointing men they've dated, courtesy of To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated. Welcome to the Instagram account by and for women, containing letters that frustrated women have penned to the men letdowns they've been romantically involved with. Scroll down and read some of the shocking things that men have tried to get away with during 2020. Let the naming and shaming begin!
It's time for your latest haul of scathing letters written by women to the disappointing men they've dated, or at least kinda dated. Because let's be honest, the word 'dating' nowadays doesn't mean much. And based on these letters, it means guys being total d*cks and trying to get away with it. But women aren't putting up with this poor behavior any longer, and it's time to name and shame. Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, we bring you the letters submitted by women to the sh*t shows they've dated, which you'll either relate to or make you feel grateful for being single. Or, thankful for the stable, good guy you're with (aren't you lucky!) Enjoy these letters and then check out last week's in case you missed them.
As if 2020 couldn't get more disappointing, throwing a couple of d-bags into the mix can only make it worse. Because what's more depressing than a modern-day Casanova a*hole who makes a woman feel like crap? Probably not much. Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram account by and for women, containing letters that frustrated women have penned to the disappointing guys they've dated — we bring you the latest haul of these scathing letters. If they weren't so funny, they would be heartbreaking, but they give a true insight into the shtshow that is modern dating.
Picture the scene: you're on a date with a hilarious, kind, smart, ambitious, and romantic gentleman. He buys the drinks, and you flirt relentlessly all night. He walks you home afterward and gives you the best kiss of your life. Oh, and he doesn't even try his luck asking to come inside for a quicky. He texts you on his way home, excitedly planning date number two. You're in love and all is good in the world.
OK, just kidding. What really happened, is your less-than-average date either picked his nose in front of you, stared at your boobs all night, and then ghosted you. Or at least two out of the three. Wouldn't it be nice to give the pr*ck a piece of your mind and tell him just how much of a disappointment he was? He's already blocked you, too late. Or is it? How about submitting the letter to To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram account by and for women, containing letters that frustrated women have penned to the disappointing guys they've dated. We've partnered with them to bring you the funniest letters that women have submitted after their dating disasters, so that you can feel slightly better about the crappy date you went on last night.
When it comes to dating, it's a harsh world out there. There are tens of psychos, weirdos, and freaks to sift through for every normal guy you meet, and it's natural to get deflated when you waste your time one of these idiots. After a bad experience, they say that journaling can be a therapeutic way of releasing any negative feelings you may hold towards a person. And what better way to do that than via a public journal of shame that the disappointing man in question may see? Or, at least, his mom. Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram account by and for women, containing letters that frustrated women have penned to the disappointing guys they've dated — we're back with another collection of letters. They're just as funny as the last lot, so scroll through and enjoy.
Have you ever been on a hilarious, horrific, or cringe-worthy date? We assume the answer is yes, because, well, who hasn't? How nice would it have been to tell the douchebag in the question exactly what you thought of him? Of course, some women choose to dish out a harsh truth after an awful date, but it's not worth the emotional energy for others. Because let's face it - a man taking constructive criticism post-date? Hard to imagine. We've teamed up with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated - An Instagram account created by women, for women, who submit letters containing all the things they've always wanted to say to the disappointing men they've dated. Scroll through this week's haul and then check out last week's in case you missed them.
