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Women Brutally Go To Town On The Crappy, Disappointing Men They Dated

Every now and again, you meet a man who takes your breath away and gives you the world. Next thing you know, they've pulled the rug out from under you and broken your heat, never to be heard from again. Sound familiar? Then you're not alone because we're willing to bet that probably 99.9% of women on the planet have been disappointed by a man in some capacity. Of course, some are worse than others, but a disappointing man is a disappointing man, and we're here to help and even the tiniest way. Instagram account To The Guys I've Dated publishes public letters of disappointment from women to the shitty men they dated. Each week they send us a collection of these letters to make you feel better about your own love life, or even the lack thereof. Because if there is no man to f*ck you around, then you can't be disappointed. Simple solution for a simple problem. Scroll through these hilarious letters and be amazed at how utterly and unbelievably shitty some men can be. Oh and then check out last week's letters in case you missed them. 

Women's Brutal Letters Of Disappointment To The Men They Dated | thumbnail text - Dear Heath, I admit I was smitten by your accent, biceps and smile. I believed you to be as kind as you came across. But after three dates you asked to borrow $5,000 and said that without it, you would have to move in with a friend and give up your phone, so I may not hear from you for a while. I guess you forgot that I was following you on Instagram. Not sure how you got the upgrades on your Jeep and all that Dear
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Women Write Funny, Public Letters Of Disappointment To The Men They Dated

If you've ever been wronged by a man you're dating—and let's be honest, which woman hasn't—then it's vital to make sure you get closure. But closure is a relative concept; does it mean going to therapy? Keying his car? Or, how about a good old-fashioned breakup letter? Thanks to the Instagram account To The Guys I've Dated, now you can do just that. Check out these letters of disappointment women everywhere are submitting letters to the undeserving men they've dated. They're brutal, scathing and giving us all the "Yassss girl" feels we need. It's time to name and shame these undeserving men.



Women's Brutal Letters Of Disappointment To The Men They Dated | thumbnail text - Dear Jason, I realized too late that when you bragged about having been with 50 women, it wasn't because you were great in bed. It was that no one wanted seconds. Unsatisfied, #51 TO THE GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED Dear Ty, I really enjoyed our few months of casual dating. Even though I had no interest in getting serious, it was still quite a shock to get a call from you in jail for solicitation of a minor on the same ni
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Women's Brutal Letters Of Disappointment To The Men They Dated

In today's modern dating sh*t show, it's essential to take as much control as you can. To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated is the Instagram account that helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men who have disappointed them in some way. And let's be honest, it's not that hard for a man to disappoint a woman. Here is this week's selection of hilarious, brutal, and slightly heartbreaking letters that might inspire you to write your own.



Women's Brutal Letters Of Disappointment To The Men They Dated | thumbnail text - Justin, Stop trying to lick girls' toes. It's not hot, dude. Marina TO THE GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED Matthew, After ending our 9 year relationship because you suddenly realized you didn't want kids after all, it was a little shocking to hear your girlfriend is pregnant. Say hi to your mom since I hear you're both now living with her. See you in the baby aisle! Mom of two TO THE GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED
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Women Write Savage Letters Of Disappointment To The Men They Dated

Popular Instagram account, To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated publishes letters that women have written to the sorry excuses of men they dated. From the long-term boyfriends to the one-or-two-date guys, these are the words of disappointment that women wish they could have said in person, for fear of them falling on deaf ears. Instead, they put them out to the universe (AKA, on Instagram), and maybe, just maybe, the guys will read them there, do some soul searching and change their ways. Unlikely though.




Women Write Savage Letters Of Disappointment To The Men They Dated | thumbnail text - Marshall, With their names tattooed on your forearm and a strong commitment to their after school activities, you still claimed that you were simply a devoted uncle. But when you added me on Facebook, all the posts wishing you a Happy Father's Day cleared that up. TO THE Sara GUYS I'VE Kada DATED Chris, Your parents must be so proud that you're marrying the girl we had a threesome with when we were still marrie
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Funny, Brutal Breakup Letters Women Wrote To The Disappointing Men They Dated (May 29, 2021)

If you've ever been wronged by a man (and let's face it: who hasn't?) then you're in luck. The time has come to name and shame all the men out there who have made you lose hope in dating, love, and, quite frankly, the universe. Instagram account 'To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated' helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them somehow.


funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail includes two letters - Text - Dear Abe, Thanks for telling me all the fun and exciting things you were going to do to me during the blandest sex of my life. The running commentary doesn't make the sex more interesting, it just makes it weird and uncomfortable. As did the pat on the thigh as you told me "that was amazing." TO THE Thanks, I think, GUYS Rach I'VE Kinda DATED Dear Amnan, I thought it was weird that you
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Funny, Brutal Breakup Letters Women Wrote To Their 'Disappointing Exes' (May 22, 2021)

Dating isn't an easy game. Between the psychos, weirdos, and freaks one needs to sift through to find one normal guy, it's natural to feel deflated after realizing you've just wasted your time on another idiot. They say that journaling can be a therapeutic way of releasing any negative feelings you may hold towards a person. And what better way to do that than via a public journal of shame that the disappointing man in question may see? Or, at least, his mom. Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram account by and for women, containing letters that frustrated women have penned to the disappointing guys they've dated — we're back with another collection of letters. They're just as funny as the last lot, so scroll through and enjoy.

funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail includes two letters - Text - Dear Daniel, I should've known it was time to call it quits the moment you told me you were too broke to buy me flowers but proceeded to buy yourself $70 worth of Pokémon socks right in front of me. TO THE Lisa GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED Dear Greg, Breaking up with me in the middle of a trip to New York and then telling me I could "finish out the vacation though" was not the best יי move. Ву
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Funny, Brutal Breakup Letters Women Wrote To Their 'Disappointing Exes' (May 15, 2021)

If you've ever been wronged by a man you're dating—and let's be real, which woman hasn't—then you might have felt tempted to send them a scathing text afterward expressing your disappointment. Hopefully, you have good friends who ensured you didn't end up doing that, but in the meantime, Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated has your back when it comes to getting the closure you need from any men who let you down. They publish open letters from women to the guys they've dated, helping to give them the satisfaction of having the last word. 

funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail Text - Dear Steve, Thanks for inviting me to that romantic beach getaway. I really enjoyed lounging by the pool, walking on the sand, and reading the note that woman left on your nightstand. Sounds like you two had a blast. TO THE GUYS Moira I'VE Kinda DATED Dear Creepy-Dad-Fetish-Guy, When you told me how much you loved being a Dad, I thought it was sweet. When you insisted on taking off/putting on my shoes, I thou
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Funny, Brutal Breakup Letters Women Wrote To Their 'Disappointing Exes' (May 8, 2021)

If you're a woman who likes men, then you've probably been in a relationship, a situationship, or on a date with a man who disappointed you in some way. Because, well... men! And I'll bet you also never really got the opportunity to tell them precisely what you thought of them, and you're still holding onto a little of that anger. It sucks not to get the closure you need when a relationship ends, and the Instagram account To The Guys I've Dated is helping women to take care of that. They post funny and real letters of disappointment from girls to their "exes." Each week, we bring you a fresh batch of these letters, so dive in and scroll through this latest haul, and then check out last week's in case you missed them.

funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail includes two letters - Text - Dear “Boyfriend", You called me “homie" for the first two years because you "didn't believe in using the word girlfriend" and then ghosted me. My friends say I'm handling the break up well. TO THE Your "homie", Liz GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED Robert, You could have warned me before inviting your MOM to our FIRST date. Saying that your other dates "didn't mind it" is a lie! Obviously they frea
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Funny, Brutal Breakup Letters Women Wrote To Their 'Disappointing Exes' (January 28, 2021)

When it comes to dating, everyone needs to kiss a few frogs before finding their prince charming. And by frogs, we mean men who will let you down, screw you over, or generally disappoint you in some way or another. We've all had the 'pleasure' of dating, or kinda dating these men, but hey, at least they make for fun stories to tell our girlfriends, right? And now, instead of just venting about them, you can take it one step further and write them a public letter of disappointment, with the Instagram account To The Guys I've Dated. They help women get the closure they need after kissing yet another crappy frog by publishing short letters written by the women who dated them. Here is the latest collection of these hilariously sad but relatable letters, which might inspire you to submit one of your own.

funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail Text - Dear Graham, Thanks for promising a night of wild passion, then delivering 2 mediocre minutes and running to the bathroom to puke afterwards because you were so hungover. I could have stayed home and watched tv. Ugh, Barb TO THE GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED
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Funny, Brutal Breakup Letters Women Wrote To Their 'Disappointing Exes' (January 21, 2021)

If you're a woman, then chances are, you've either been in a relationship with or at least had a date with a man who made you lose the will to live. Men possess a unique talent for really grinding your gears and getting under your skin- and not in a good way—amirite ladies?  Imagine the satisfaction you'd get by writing him a letter expressing what you felt about him and posting it online for all the world to see (including, hopefully, his mom). Well, now you can, courtesy of the Instagram account To The Guys I've Dated, who post funny and real letters of disappointment from girls to their "exes." Each week, we bring you a fresh batch of these letters, so dive in and scroll through this latest haul, and then check out last week's in case you missed them.



funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail - Text - Dear Mark, When you offered to look after my puppy so I could attend an important lunch, I thought you might be the one. When I came home early to find you passed out drunk and the puppy covered your vomit, was less convinced. in TO THE Ann GUYS I'VE Kada DATED, Oh Sweet Kyle, I never cringed more than the night you told me that I didn't have to pee after sex because I was on birth control. WHAT?! TO THE GU
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Funny, Brutal Breakup Letters Women Wrote To Their 'Disappointing Exes' (January 14, 2021)

We've all been through breakups where all we wanted to do was send our piece-of-sh*t ex a message telling them exactly what we thought of them. Because, well... closure. But, whether our friends convinced us not to, or our sense of pride got the better of us, we held back (until we had that second glass of wine). But now, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated has your back when it comes to getting the closure you need from any men who let you down. Simply write your ex a short letter, let them post it, and hope his whole family (and new GF) sees it! Simple.



funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail includes two letters Text - Dear John, So you can put your tongue in 3 different parts of my body, but you can't share a straw with me? Ok, that makes sense. Samantha TO THE GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED, Hi Wez, Everytime you tried to kiss me in the back of the movie theater, I turned my head and you started making out with my ear. I had to be on antibiotics for an ear infection the whole month after that. TO THE Take a hi
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Funny, Brutal Breakup Letters Women Wrote To Their 'Disappointing Exes' (January 7, 2021)

When it came to romance (or anything else, for that matter), 2020 wasn't exactly the best year. Thankfully, 2021 has made an appearance, bringing with it endless possibilities in the 'love' department'. Ladies, it's time to cleanse your spirit (and lady parts) from all the f*ck boys you left behind in 2020. New year, new you! And just in case you need it, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated has your back when it comes to getting the closure you need from any men who let you down. All you need to do is write them a letter, explaining what your disappointing ex did to you, and they'll publish it on their account, naming and shaming him for the world to see. Closure never felt so sexy!

funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail includes two letters - Text - Dear Jay, Thank you for being my first one night stand in a new town. Wish I knew you worked in my new office before we slept together though. From, The new girl TO THE GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED Cory, Though we slept together for over a year, we never made it official. I couldn't predict where this was going but between the constant FaceTime calls you made all July and the jealousy you expr
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Funny, Brutal Letters Of Disappointment From Girls To Their “Exes” (December 31, 2020)

I think I speak for most people when I say dating in 2020 has been an all-round sh*tty experience. I mean, as if the logistics of socially-distance dating or the nightmare of figuring out how to bubble up with your f*ck buddy during a pandemic wasn't stressful enough. When you throw some idiot men into the mix, and you've got yourself a whole new level of 2020 dumpster fire. Luckily, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated is here to the rescue. They help women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the exes or almost exes who have disappointed them in some way, by naming and shaming them online. So ladies, if a certain f*ck boy has f*cked you over one too many times (and let's face it, one time is too many), then write them a letter and hope their mom or current girlfriend sees it. Here's to karma being a b*tch, and to the end of 2020.

funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail includes two letters - Text - Dear Shaun, I said I wasn't ready to date again but we hit it off, so I decided to give it a shot. We had such a great time together and our first kiss was so amazing that I broke all of my "rules" for you. You know what was also amazing? Six weeks in, I found out you got engaged a few days before our first date. TO THE GUYS Jenny I'VE Kinda DATED Dear Al, I hope your mum enjoyed the 12
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Funny, Brutal Letters Of Disappointment From Girls To Their “Exes” (December 24, 2020)

Have you ever dated a man who was, how can I put this, less than satisfactory? Someone you wouldn't recommend to a friend, no matter how desperate that friend was? Well, then you're in good company because welcome to being a woman. And if you ever wanted to let those men know how short-changed you felt after dating them, then welcome to the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated. They help women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week we bring you a fresh batch of letters from women who wish to name and shame these men, giving them the karma they deserve.

funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail includes two letters - Text - Isaac, When I asked if you were dating anyone else, you told me you were "loosely" dating someone. Unfortunately I had to find out the truth from your live-in girlfriend whom you were looking at engagement rings with that your definition of loosely was way off. And no, I still won't visit you in Chicago. Alex то THE GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED
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Funny, Brutal Letters Of Disappointment From Girls To Their “Exes” (December 17, 2020)

Nowadays, finding a decent man can be a challenge. Between the f*ck 's boys, the guys with commitment issues, the mommy's boys, and the straight-up liars, women find themselves in a constant state of frustration. Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Together with them, we bring you a weekly collection of letters from these women, helping them name and shame their disappointing man. Here are this week's letters.

funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail includes two letters Text - Dear Alan, You tried to reach out a few times since we broke up, but creating a Wikipedia page for my dead relative was the weirdest thing you ever did to get my attention. Весса TO THE GUYS I'VE Kinda DATED Text - To another guy who wants to have his cake and eat it too: Scrolling through your exes Instagram photos while we're in bed together, moments after intercourse, is bad bed etique
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Funny, Brutal Letters Of Disappointment From Girls To Their “Exes” (December 10, 2020)

In today's modern dating sh*t show, it's important to take as much control as you can. To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated is the Instagram account that helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we post a weekly collection of letters from these women,  helping in the naming and shaming process. Because if there's one thing we hate, it's a f*ck boy. And if there's one thing we love, it's supporting women to live their best lives. Welcome to this week's haul, which is just as funny, savage, and slightly heartbreaking as the last.

funny letters of disappointment from women to the guys they've dated | thumbnail includes two letters Text - Dear Ryan, I knew agreeing to another date with you was risky since all you talked about was cocaine on our first date. But I guess not as risky as you lighting your pants on fire and having to cancel last minute. All the best, TO THE GUYS Dana I'VE Kinda DATED Text - Dear Casual Quarterly Hookup, Thanks for inviting me to catch up this weekend... it's been a while. But I'm glad I couldn'
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