Excluding a father from his son's birth may be unusual, but it is the woman's choice. It's totally normal in such a circumstance for the father to have some negative feelings about it, as it is literally depriving him of a lifelong shared memory that he would cherish. To have such obvious, blatant disdain for his misery after such a choice is just mean. There is a way to go about things, and this is not it. A man took to the r/AITA sub after his pregnant wife scolded him heavily, telling him to…