The dating scene is not always kind. You'll have some incredible moments that you cherish forever and other less-than-ideal ones that you will wish to forget. But the key to keeping a positive outlook is to never let the mistakes and misdeeds of others determine who you are or your worth as a person. The woman in the tale below is a newbie to the lesbian dating scene. The Original Poster (OP) remembers how unjustly and poorly her first female relationship—or, for lack of a better word, situatio…