Your family should always come first. Having said that, there are instances in which you must put your needs and wants first. Does that mean you're a selfish person? or simply human? The story that follows is about an unhappy relative. The original poster (OP), who had moved to Germany with her husband and their four-month-old child, got an invitation to a cousin's wedding in the United States. OP had initially intended to travel to the wedding, even though she was aware that it would be highly…

Welcome back women and men of the world. As someone who’s traveled a lot in their life, and mostly alone, it can be more than daunting to be with someone else. Traveling solo definitely isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, but for those who enjoy it, it’s one of the most exonerating experiences one could have. You’re left to your own devices, you don’t have to compromise for anyone, and you meet a lot of new people when you’re traveling solo. Deciding to travel with a friend is a big decision. Your bub…

Summertime is your oyster

There’s nothing worse than finding out your partner was hiding something from you. Time and place are everything, and of course, during a romantic beach getaway, is when this woman stumbles upon her boyfriend’s hidden photos on his phone. Actually, hidden is a strong word; she says she went to his screenshots (to find the restaurant they were going to), and they were all right there. So as uncouth as it sounds, if you’re going to lie and scheme, at least know how to keep a secret. This poor wom…

20s you: vacation. Mom you: staycation

The girl math is mathing this summer and giving us all the validation we need to spend spend spend.

Hey there internet queens and kings. The lifelong issue of infidelity still persists until today. Universally demonized, yet universally practiced. Everyone’s favorite thing to judge and demean, to dehumanize, yet let themselves succumb to its treacherous ways. So who is it this time? Its protagonist is a man caught in a hard place. He sees the signs and knows what it is, but he needs to know the truth for real. When your wife disappears out of the country and spends no money at all, things obv…

Summer never felt so good

Weddings are a time to celebrate love and signify the union of two individuals in the sacred union of matrimony. Despite being a momentous occasion, the wedding gives friends and family a chance to support the couple as they come together as one cohesive unit. However, the honeymoon is just meant to be a time for the couple to fully commit to each other, in whatever way they feel fit. The story that follows comes from a friend who is frustrated. Originally posted on Reddit, the user asked if it…

Welcome back internet enthusiasts of the world. In relationships, communication is key. It’s easy to become defensive, avoidant, or put off from talking about things. It can be easier to just take matters into your own hands, to make executive decisions without regarding the other person. Though this could be easier in the short run, it proves unwise in the long run. Whatever you’re hiding, your partner will find out. This piece is about an audacious man (no surprise) . Sometimes it feels like…

Hey there internet people. Family vacations can be either incredible, or can tear families apart. It’s not easy coordinating between couples, children, and individuals. It can bring people to the brink of their patience. Having to always keep everyone’s feelings and moods in mind, and trying to please them all is straining and tiring. It’s especially uncomfortable when you’re invited to what you think is a family vacation, meanwhile your brother and his wife just want a free babysitter while th…

Your family should always come first. But while you're on vacation, are you still supposed to be the responsible aunt that everyone knows and loves, or are you allowed to unwind and enjoy yourself without a single worry in the world? The story below describes the sister who is frustrated. In the next months, it is anticipated that the original poster (OP) will take a much-needed vacation. OP is eager to go because she hasn't had the chance to travel in over ten years. Things quickly became heat…

Half a year ago, it was pretty common to plan a double date with your favorite couple only to get rain checked because they were both down bad with the flu. When you spend all day and night with someone, share food and saliva, and constantly touch the same door handles, light switches, and Sriracha bottles, it’s pretty much inevitable that you and your partner will get sick at the same time. While certainly not always fun, it can be an experience that brings a couple closer together . Sharing b…

Some high school friends need to stay in the year book.

We all know how devastating it is to be dumped. Between the shock and the heartbreak, it can feel like the world is crashing down on you. But this feeling is temporary, even though it seems to last an eternity. And the longer you’re with someone, the more it hurts, and the longer it takes to move on. Now, add that you’re engaged to be married? This will take some serious therapy to get over. This couple went through thick and thin together, traveled for a pre-wedding vacation, and upon their la…

Whether you like it or not, your family and your husband's family will always come first since they are a permanent part of your life. The sister-in-law who is frustrated is described in the story below. The original poster (OP) had promised to host her husband's nieces and nephews for a few days so they could explore the city and spend a long weekend away from home. Things were going pretty well at first, but when she found out that some of her most important possessions were disappearing, thi…