Finding out that your spouse is cheating on you via text messages they aren't even attempting to delete or hide properly is absolutely brutal… and discovering that it is with that one person you suspected they were attracted to all along is even more gut-wrenching. Sometimes you just know when something is off, and this is exactly the case for OP, who went through her husband's phone and found the one thing she hoped she'd never find… text messages between him and his coworker, saying he had fe…