"Should I just settle and help him pay his debts off/accept that this is what's happening and stay with him? Or try to detach and take steps back and live separately until he can get a grip on his financial situation?"

“I just had a very painful, invasive procedure done and I’m in pain. He said if she called him right now and said she needed him, he’d drop everything to go help her.”

“My life was easier when I was a single mom.”

“I feel hurt and devastated and even a little betrayed.”

“I'm pregnant with our second now, and I'm sure I'm hormonal, so missing out on these memories she made might be affecting me more than it normally would…”

You shouldn't have to “earn” the respect of someone who claims they love you.

“I'm not saying he's a bad guy, it's just that I'm not comfortable with my boyfriend having such a close female best friend, especially when I thought I was his best friend.”

You are not your boyfriend's sugar mama.

“I swear that he could've whispered it from across the ocean and I would've heard.”

“In my eyes, he was fawning over another woman while I was just in the next room.”

“The entire situation just made me feel [terrible], and I got pretty upset. He started laughing because he said it wasn't a big deal and I should just give him his space.”

“I asked my husband: ‘What's her name again?’ and he was like ‘hmmmm, don't know can't remember.’"

“He came back inside and asked if I was done having a tantrum.”

Your wife and newborn baby should take priority over an inappropriate relationship with your co-worker.

“I have given half of my life to this relationship and I refuse to have these feelings for the rest of my life.”

Her taste in furniture was the one that got away.