Being attracted to your partner is an essential aspect of a healthy relationship. Although attraction isn't based solely on physical appearance—it's also about their character—being OK with the way your partner looks is crucial. If you don't like the way someone looks, don't be with them. And don't complain about it and pretend that you're doing so for their good. Because that's how you give people insecurities or at least perpetuate ones they already have.
One guy took to Reddit's Am I The A— Hole, explaining that his girlfriend has a "bad case of TMJ, which makes it so that when she gives a big smile, one side of her mouth curls up into a huge grin while the other side basically stays still. Every selfie we've taken together has her looking like this. While I absolutely accept that this is just a condition she has, I wish she would do what she can to make it less noticeable." Redditers jumped to defend the poor woman, calling this guy out for the a**hole that he is. Here is his post, with some of the comments. What do you think?