We used to believe that relationships were meant to be these crazy rollercoasters filled with ups, downs, turns, and upside town twists. But the older we get the more we realize that relationships are supposed to be a safe haven where two people are comfortable and intimate with one another. A safe space where all your quirks and insecurities are welcomed and not frowned upon. Don't get us wrong, we love the thrill and mystery when it comes to romance and dating. But if we're talking about long…