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Usually, people need advice for how to start up with or attract someone they're interested in. But it's equally as valuable to have some tactics up your sleeve if you're ever in a situation where you seriously want the person in front of you to lose all attraction towards you. They don't teach you these kinds of things in school, and honestly, it's probably for the best. But hey, who knows if you'll ever be in a situation where you want to 'de-hornify' the person you're on a date with. Obviously, you can always just leave, but there are definitely more interesting and permanent ways to freak them out.

Men can seem like quite the mystery sometimes, even though they often like to brag about how they're very simple creatures. The fact of the matter is that we are all complex people with different passions and desires. Going out with one man doesn't mean you've got them all 'figured out.' If you treat guys as if they're completely different than women, well you kind of put them in a box. News flash: at the end of the day we all want to be loved.

Having kids is a true blessing, but sometimes they can test our patience to unhealthy levels. For example, one thing that young children aren't so good at is understanding the value of money or valuables. So when they accidentally break something expensive or irreplaceable, unfortunately, you can't be too mad at them. Parents of Reddit have revealed the most expensive things their children ruined by mistake and I can only imagine the self-restraint they had to exercise in order to not kill their kids on the spot! 

During her performance at the 2021 BET Awards, Cardio B revealed that she was pregnant with her second child. This was a surprise nobody saw coming, and her fans, or the Bardigang, were definitely taken aback. It didn't take long for them to express their intense excitement on Twitter. Here are some of the silliest and most extra responses we found.

Sometimes we put a lot of thought into what we order at the bar. Do we want something sweet? Salty? Citrus? Strong? Smokey? Cheap AF? If you're an indecisive queen you probably ask for a little bit of each category, or you just beg your friend to go ahead and order for you so you can avoid any kind of unneccesary social interaction. Whatever your tactic is, we don't judge you, but it appears that bartenders do.

Giving birth is one of, if not the hardest things that a woman will ever go through. And although some women have it a lot easier than others, every woman has her own difficult labor journey. As with everything in life, however, it can be made a little bit easier with some humor thrown in. These women shared their stories of the funniest moments they had in the delivery room - from husbands passing out, to only finding out they were pregnant when they went into labor, to everything in between.

A lot of the time we, women, like to talk about the things that many men simply cannot comprehend. things relating to our reproductive systems. our friendship circles, even our fashion inspiration. It is hard to know if men have caught on by this point that women do not really dress for their gaze. We usually dress to get compliments from more fashionable women. Oops. Is it okay that I revealed that?

Well, men on Reddit are revealing all of their guy secrets, and maybe it will give us an inside look into the male psyche.

You have probably heard this at least once before, but men and women get treated quite differently. I think it's called inequality? I don't know, it's so embedded into our culture it's hard to even recognize it sometimes.

Seriously, you can see the inequality in almost every context. It's the kind of thing where, once somebody points it out to you, you can't go back to ignoring it. This woman shared on Tumblr how it is especially apparent in the media.

Being cheated on in a relationship is one of the most heartbreaking things a person can go through. While there is no good way to find out that it's happening, some cheating reveals are harsher than others. For example, I'm sure most people would prefer to have their partner sit them down and break the news then walk in on them in bed with someone else. But I guess when you're cheating on your spouse, their feelings aren't exactly the first thing on your mind. These Redditors share their heartbreaking horror stories of discovering their partner was unfaithful, and to be honest, they are pretty brutal.

When it comes to finding 'the one,' many people have unrealistic expectations. Thanks to Hollywood, we have this idea that we'll bump into a tall, dark, and handsome stranger on the subway, our eyes will meet, and there will be instant fireworks and butterflies. From one minute to the next, we've met the love of our lives, and it's smooth sailing from there. But, in reality, 'the one' takes a lot of work to sustain, and relationships are hard. Sometimes, 'the one' isn't the person you always imagined, but it's the person with who you make things work. Some call it settling, and some call it being realistic.

When it comes to sex, everyone has their thing. Each person gets off to something specific, from a range of bizarre kinks and fetishes to bog-standard, plain ol' vanilla sex. Of course, no one should be judged for what gets them off in the bedroom. As long as their partner is consensual and willing to take part in their fetish safely, then it's all good. But fetishes are very personal, and when you're in a relationship with someone who is into something you're not, then things can get... awkward. People on Reddit shared the kinks their exes used to have, which did absolutely nothing for them, and it's clear how crucial sexual compatibility is in a relationship.

Let's be honest; when it comes to men and women, no one has a clue what the other sex is thinking. Both assume they have some sort of insight into the others' psyche, especially when it comes to what the other finds attractive. But the reality is, it's all a guessing game and each is as clueless as the other. It's like the blind leading the blind. Thankfully, a recent Reddit thread asking men to share the things that women think turn guys on, but aren't as attractive or sexy as women think they are has shed some much-needed light into the brains of the male population. Feel free to take that with a handful pinch of sarcasm. Women, take note because you're about to enter the holy grail of man code. 

There are several perks to having a housekeeper or maid—the obvious one being that you don't have to do any of your own housework. But, like all priveledges, being able to afford a housekeeper comes at a price. Having someone in your house nearly every day means that they have access to all the private parts of your life...  

Everyone has secrets - it's what makes us human. But not all secrets are born equal. For some, their worst secret is that they stole a cookie from the jar when you were five-years-old. For others, it's that they murdered the cat next door. It's all relative. But a Reddit thread asking people to share their most disgusting secrets has proved that some people are truly messed up, and honestly, reading through some of these disturbing revelations makes me realize how boring my life is. 

Let me set the scene. You are having problems with your computer at work, and you call out in frustration for someone in the office to help you. A guy from the desk clump opposite jumps to the rescue and makes his way to your desk. You gesture for him to take your seat, but he insists on standing. He leans over your shoulder, peering at the screen, trying to figure out the issue. You've never given this guy much thought before, but suddenly, you notice how clear his skin is, how amazing he smells, and how crisp his white shirt is. He is five inches from your face, and you start the electricity is palpable. How has a seemingly innocent situation become so sexually charged? 

If you've ever been in a situation like that, let me reassure you that you're not alone. Redditors have been sharing all the moments in life where non-sexual things suddenly feel extremely sexual, and I'm shocked at how many of these resonate with me. Scroll through and make me feel better that I'm not alone?

The world is split into two types of men: those who love taking bubble baths, lighting scented candles and talking about their feelings, and those who want to do all those things but would never admit to it. Society dictates that these types of things are "girly" and reserved only for women, but I say why shouldn't men be able to pamper themselves in the same way without being stigmatized? The men of Reddit thread are admitting to the "girliest" things they do, and we've collected some of the answers that may, but shouldn't, shock you the most.