Sometimes, debatably more often than not, red flags are super duper obvious. When you look back at a fail relationship it blows your mind that you didn't seem them before . “Oh, he has sleep overs with his super hot girl best friend?” RED FLAG. “He got mad at me because I said hello to my guy friend… from a distance.” BIG 'OLE RED FLAG. Those are obvious in hindsight, but what about the yellow flags? The orange flags? The flags that had you confused and searching for clues. Recently, a woman to…