You are called the mother of the bride for a reason. It's not your wedding.

Some people are out there and are living a real-life fairytale story, and I am not sure if that is a good thing or a bad thing. On one hand, you have a life story that people write books and make movies about, and those stories usually end with a happy ending. On the other hand, a lot of those stories start with the hero being in pretty bad shape, and they have to overcome many challenges before actually getting their happily ever after. This story reminded me of a classic Cinderella story, exc…

I think it is incredibly important for every employee to maintain a good relationship with their coworkers. I even believe that you should feel like the people you work with are your friends and be comfortable enough around them to talk about things other than work and business. So if my husband became friends with a female coworker, I honestly would not think much of it. I am not the jealous type, and I trust my husband and his judgment. That being said, there are points where I definitely do…

It was all yellow!

It is no joke when people say that when you marry a person, you are also marrying their family. Like it or not, marriage means that you are going to have a long and committed relationship with your partner's parents, siblings, uncles, aunts, and sometimes their children. So if you don't have a good relationship with your partner's family, I would seriously suggest proceeding with caution. It can cause a lot of stress having to navigate a relationship with people who don't support you. The perso…

She deserves better

“I do not want to go into a significant amount of debt for a wedding.”

When a couple's relationship starts getting really serious, there is always the question of when they should move in together. It is hard to decide when it is the right time to make such a move because sharing a space is probably the hardest challenge in the relationship. People are so different when it comes to how they treat their living space, which means there must be many disagreements. The woman who wrote this Reddit story is at a loss about what to do in her living situation with her hus…

If you were jealous, you could've just said that!

If there is one thing that I am grateful for about getting married young, is that neither of us had money when we got married. I am fully aware that this sounds ridiculous to be grateful for, but the fact that we had almost the same starting point financially saved us from the pain of fighting about it. Both of us being young and at the start of our careers allowed us to build our financial state together and as equals, so there were no accusations of one of us being a gold-digger, mostly becau…

You can't have your cake and eat it too.

I thought MOHs were supposed to like the bride.

Having a good relationship with your partner's family is something no one should take for granted. For some reason, it is so rare to feel at home with your loved one's family, and if someone does feel comfortable, they should hold on to that as strongly as they can. It seems like the family in this Reddit story is on great terms with each other, which is why it is surprising that OP (original poster) is looking to cause drama. OP is happily married to his wife, who, as it seems, is close to her…

If there is one thing that I am excited about when I become a mom, is to dress my kids in cute and stylish outfits. I am in no way a fashionable person, but there is something that seems so fun in dressing your own tiny baby, and I just know I'll do a good job. That being said, if my partner will also enjoy picking out clothes for our kids, I don't see myself denying him that, even if the clothes he picks are not my favorite. This is hardly a good enough reason to create drama for the family, a…

I fully support the idea that people should be 100% themselves when they are around their loved ones. There should be absolutely no reason for couples to feel uncomfortable around each other, or feel like they shouldn't show their true colors to their significant other. When both of the people in a relationship are completely themselves, that allows them to understand just how compatible they truly are with each other. If at that stage, something is still not right between the couple, there is…

I got that Summertime Madness!