We've all heard the 'It's not you, it's me' speech. The shorter version of that is the 'I'm just not really looking for a relationship…' mantra, which has become so mainstream that even when true, remains a bitter cliche. Fair, on occasion it holds some verity. But we believe we are the rule, not the exception ('He's just not into you' reference whatttt upppp?). If you haven't had your heart broken yet, you're one of the lucky ones. We don't believe in the whole 'It is better to have loved and…

Valentine's day, you're officially here.

Just in time for the most romantic day of the year.

The cutest moments people realized they had met The One.

Ewwww, Valentine's day is right around the corner...

You say self-love, I say self-deprecate.

The month of love and memes.

Oh Ben, your face illustrates how we feel.

For the people that don't know how to flirt in real life, so they send memes instead (guilty)

Dating apps suck, what else is new? You see someone cute, swipe and match, leading to a surprisingly good connection via long stimulating conversations. You think, ‘Huh, there’s potential', only to have your hopes wildly dashed when you're inevitably breadcrumbed, stood up, or ghosted. The dating pool nowadays is full of pirhanas. People hide behind their screens, basking in obscure anonymity. Some of us have tougher skin than others, and this young woman who took to Reddit admitted that she si…

The feminine urge to play dumb (strategically)

Well well well, if it isn't the month of love.

The dating pool is a swamp.

The vibes ~feel~ off

The wittier - the better

Everyone else is the problem.