The effort put into a relationship does not stop once you're married. In fact, more effort needs to go in. You have to date your partner for as long as you are together. Life has ups and downs, and if you vow to commit to another person, you have to face the ups and downs together. It's not just for show; you actually have to show up in a relationship for it to work. But don't wait to show up until it's too late. By doing random, small acts of kindness...