We girls belong to a private club that is not open to the general public. It's an inherently difficult club to get into or out of, and because of its extraordinary exclusivity, we are unable to know what is expected of us. Are we supposed to follow the unspoken social norms in order to blend in and be accepted, or are we just supposed to wing it? While browsing the app, I came across a video on TikTok of a woman asking exactly that. She asks every question imaginable and provides her followers…