Life soon teaches us that no one can look after us as well as we can. Ultimately, as strong, independent women, we ought to be able to look out for our own interests and take care of ourselves. That being said, I came across a Reddit thread discussing whether or not the woman at the hotel bar ought to have accepted a free drink that was extended to her by an unknown person. The Original Poster (OP) explains that she wasn't comfortable accepting or returning the act of kindness because she wasn'…