Money is one of the primary points of argument in relationships, and oftentimes the person making more begins to resent the person making less. In this case, the person making less was OP. She went on a luxury shopping spree without telling him the amount she was going to spend, which she admitted was a bit substantive. OP told her husband she would stop buying luxury items, but then bought sandals for the summer. He got so mad that he called her a ‘free loader’ on his investments and added tha…

Going through a breakup is hard enough, but when you throw a cheating ex into the mix, welp, that becomes a whole other level of emotional turmoil. And if that wasn't enough, imagine adding kids into the equation. Because who doesn't love a little bit of chaos in an already messy situation? Welp, that's exactly what we have in store for y'all today: a messy divorce followed by an even messier… co-parenting situation, if you will. The highlight is on a recently divorced couple whose been togethe…

If there's one thing we learned in the past year it's trust your gut. Whether it's a relationship, a friendship, or your new workplace - if your gut is giving you weird turbulence-like feelings, trust it. We don't know about you ladies, but we oftentimes used to gaslight ourselves out of this feeling. We'd say, ‘oh, I’m probably just overthinking things' or ‘nah, I’m just a little crazy' . But having gone through a complete rollercoaster of a relationship this past year, we've come to appreciat…

Over time, people change, and oftentimes that's the reason you find yourself drifting apart from friends, family, and partners. In this case, OP's husband changed into a person she no longer knew; this was not the man she married. OP explained that after getting a new job where her husband was paid a lot of money, he slowly but surely began to represent the type of people he was constantly surrounded with: mean rich people, for lack of a better term. The day she never thought would arrive final…

Finding out that your spouse is cheating on you via text messages they aren't even attempting to delete or hide properly is absolutely brutal… and discovering that it is with that one person you suspected they were attracted to all along is even more gut-wrenching. Sometimes you just know when something is off, and this is exactly the case for OP, who went through her husband's phone and found the one thing she hoped she'd never find… text messages between him and his coworker, saying he had fe…

Is it time for a divorce?

The rules have changed and the characters have aged

She wants the spotlight THAT bad

That escalated quickly

What in the Ross from Friends is going on here?

Getting a divorce is usually one of the most stressful experiences anyone can have. It's like a breakup, but now the government is involved. And let's be honest, government controlled projects are not known for being easy and stress-free. So imagine you're trying to breakup with someone , but you have to do it through the DMV. Sounds like a nightmare, right? Well, if you ask people who have been through a divorce, many will say it WAS a waking nightmare. Divorce is even worse when the relations…

Why is it always the kids who get caught up in all of this divorce bs

Perhaps the first red flag could have been that OP was a 20-something gay man scouring Grindr and was getting matched with an older guy with no profile photo, a vague bio, and an “ex wife” in the wings. Alleged ex-wife, we should say.

Divorce is petty af

She's basically a single mom already

Today we're talking about sacrifice, entitlement, and temper tantrums