The concept of getting closure is a funny thing. Don't get me wrong; everyone wants to move on after a relationship ends. Being free of any residual emotional attachment or pain is essential in achieving this (speaking from A LOT of experience). But there are many ways to accomplish this, ranging from sitting back and letting karma do its thing to angrily keying your exes car. Nestled healthily somewhere in the middle of those two ends of the spectrum is shaming your disappointing ex-boyfriend on Instagram for the world (and hopefully their moms) to see. That's right, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated allows women to get the closure they need by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we feature a new batch of these hilarious letters for your viewing pleasure. Scroll through, laugh at these ladies' expenses, and then head over to last week's in case you missed them.
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Ladies, have you ever been on a really sh*tty date with a man and wished you were home with your cat instead? Have you ever wasted your good years on a man who couldn't, and frankly wouldn't commit? Do you ever wish you hadn't swiped right to that guy on Tinder who ended up giving you the worst sex of your life? If the answer to any of those is yes, then check out the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, which allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. We've teamed up with them to bring you a fresh collection of letters each week, naming and shaming the disappointing men out there. And who knows, they might even inspire you to write in one of your own!
Each week, we bring you a hilarious collection of letters written by women to men who have f*cked them over. Whether it's one date or a full-on relationship, they feel wronged by a man in some way or another, and it's time to name and shame. Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — the Instagram page that allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way — welcome to your latest haul of treats. This week's collection is just as hilarious as the last and makes us wonder when the day will come that men will finally. Stop. Disappointing. Women! Scroll through for some laughs (or tears, depending on how you look at it).
Since the dawn of time, men have been screwing women over. And I don't mean leaving them sexually satisfied kind of screw. I'm talking about sleeping with them and not calling them back, sort of screw. But, we aren't in the dawn of time anymore, and women no longer have to depend on men to hunt for food and provide for the family while putting up with all sorts of crappy behavior. Now, women are taking back the reigns and calling men out for their bullsh*t, as publically as possible. And what is more public than writing a personalized letter of shame and putting it on Instagram for the world (which hopefully includes his mom) to see?
Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — the Instagram page that allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way — we bring you the latest haul of goodies. Scroll through these hilarious letters of disappointment and get an insight into the shitshow that is modern-day dating. And then check out last week's haul for some more dating debacles.
They say honesty is the best policy; however, it's not always easy to tell someone face-to-face how you feel after they've hurt or disappointed you. Especially when it comes to love. But the need for closure is real, and sometimes it's easier to write a letter, text, or email to the d-bag who screwed you over, letting them know what you think of them. And if that message was public, for the world (aka, for his friends, or even his mom), to see, it might feel even more cathartic.
Now, you can do that with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram page that allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we bring you the latest letters women have submitted, and each collection is as funny as the last. Check out this week's haul, and then head over to last week's for some more laughs.
We've teamed up with the popular Instagram account, To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, who publish funny and real letters of disappointment from girls to their "exes." Together, we bring you a weekly collection of messages women have submitted about the freak-shows they dated, expressing all the things they wish they could have said to them. From the guys who take your virginity and don't call you back, to the creeps who flirt with your mom, men find new and creative ways to disappoint each time. Scroll through this week's hilarious letters and then check out last week's, just in case you missed them.
The world of dating can be fun and entertaining, but sometimes, it also kind of sucks. We've all been excited over a guy who seemed (almost) perfect on paper, but who ended up being a massive letdown in reality. Whether it's the a**hole who tries convincing you to have a threesome with him and his wife or the guy with offensive table manners, the result is always the same—crushing disappointment. Wouldn't it be great if, instead of sending the standard, "lovely meeting you, but it's not going to work out" text, you could pen a brutally candid, scathing message, telling him exactly what you thought of him? Because honesty is the best type of closure, amirite?
Well now, you can— sort of. We've teamed up with the popular Instagram account, To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, who publish funny and real letters of disappointment from girls to their "exes." Together, we will bring you a weekly haul of all the ugly truths that women wish they could have said to the losers they were in relationships with or briefly dated. And who knows; maybe one of those guys will spot their name, read the letters and learn from their mistakes. But probably not.
People who have not slept with a member of the opposite sex will always wonder what it's like. Whether it's because they haven't managed to get lucky yet, they swing the other way, or they choose to live a life of abstinence, it will forever remain a mystery. The only way to somewhat understand what it's like is to ask people who have had the experience, which is precisely what one TikToker did.
Marissa Wilkes created a video on TikTok, explaining, "As a woman loving woman who has never been with a guy, I'm curious. Ladies, what is it like to sleep with a guy? Especially the ladies that also like the ladies that have been with men. Please, be brutally, brutally honest." Let's just say, her followers did not disappoint. They brutally roasted men, coming up with analogies that are harsh enough to make most men crawl into their man caves and never come out again. Scroll through and read the hilarious reviews left by these unsatisfied ladies left.
