"She started making small talk with him, asking him where he was from, what his intentions were, basically giving him the third degree right in front of me."

"He was [supposed] to be my future husband and we were [supposed] to be together for the rest of our lives."

She might've girl bossed too close to the sun.

"I was upset and told him that if he thought embarrassing me in front of his family was funny, maybe he should just date his mom’s cooking instead."

If you have nothing to hide, someone going through your phone shouldn't even feel like that big of a deal... Right?

Iykyk.

"We discussed coming up with money to pay for the procedure and he refused to give up the watch and told me to ‘find some other way to get the money’ when he knows I can't."

"Do I just give up on the idea of marriage and kids altogether and just be happy I found a good guy?"

"He even used the words ‘less than.’"

"Talking about the wedding with him was like pulling teeth!"

"Should I just settle and help him pay his debts off/accept that this is what's happening and stay with him? Or try to detach and take steps back and live separately until he can get a grip on his financial situation?"

"She’s playing terrible mind games with me and she’s exploiting my insecurities..."

“My life was easier when I was a single mom.”

You shouldn't have to “earn” the respect of someone who claims they love you.

“I'm not saying he's a bad guy, it's just that I'm not comfortable with my boyfriend having such a close female best friend, especially when I thought I was his best friend.”

You are not your boyfriend's sugar mama.