The boyfriend is not the only person left speechless from this story, because I am truly unsure how to process the situation between these two people. Every person should have a clear time frame of how they want their life to look at certain points, and they should be mindful of those time frames when they get into a relationship, get a job, move to a different location, etc. Obviously, no one knows what the future holds, and rarely does anything in life happen according to plan, but I believe…