Weddings don't always have to be stressful, but they often are. One would think that a wedding and the days leading up to it are among the happiest occasions of a person's life, given what they truly stand for. The story below is an account of a puzzled former bridesmaid. To be clear, OP is set to get married. Her friend got engaged soon after she did, and they met to discuss their upcoming nuptials. Both women provided support and direction to each other during the entire process. However, thi…