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'Don't worry, I don't go for looks':  Ladies of Reddit Discuss the Most Memorable Backhanded Compliments Men Have Ever Offered

'Don't worry, I don't go for looks': Ladies of Reddit Discuss the Most Memorable Backhanded Compliments Men Have Ever Offered

In life, there are certain things we would rather laugh at than grieve over. For instance, backhanded compliments, which leave you scratching your head in confusion. Rather than take insulting remarks from random people personally, we've assembled a list of some of the cruelest—and hence funniest—statements we could possibly find. That being said, we girlies are such a close-knit group that any disrespect towards one of us has an equal impact on the rest of us. As you can see from the comments…
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Family Dispute Arises as Woman Sneakily Tries on Future Daughter-In-Law’s Wedding Gown Behind Her Back

Family Dispute Arises as Woman Sneakily Tries on Future Daughter-In-Law’s Wedding Gown Behind Her Back

Marriage is a lovely ritual that unites two people for all eternity. A wedding necessitates careful planning in numerous domains such as choosing the caterer, keeping track of the guest list, hiring a DJ, and, of course, picking the bridal gown. So, how would you react if someone tried on your wedding dress without your permission or knowledge and then tried to place the blame on you? The story that follows is an account of a frustrated fiancé. The original poster (OP) intended to marry the man…
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‘This is overboard…’: Boyfriend Taken Aback by Girlfriend’s Opulent Style of Living and Deems It ‘Offensive’ Causing Rift in Relationship

‘This is overboard…’: Boyfriend Taken Aback by Girlfriend’s Opulent Style of Living and Deems It ‘Offensive’ Causing Rift in Relationship

People come from different backgrounds. However, who are we to decide what is good and bad, right and wrong? The story that follows gives a detailed account of a boyfriend's frustration. Although he has been dating his girlfriend for some time, the Original Poster (OP) hasn't had the chance to get to know her family. However, all changed when OP's girlfriend invited him to her father's birthday celebration. When OP arrived at the vacation house, he was surprised to see it was staffed entirely b…
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Niece Refuses to Comply When Aunt Demands She Surprise Her Estranged Step-Sisters at Baby Shower, Aunt Calls Her ‘Ungrateful’

Niece Refuses to Comply When Aunt Demands She Surprise Her Estranged Step-Sisters at Baby Shower, Aunt Calls Her ‘Ungrateful’

The idea of babies and everything related to welcoming new souls into the world is fascinating. Your child is the culmination of countless possibilities and struggles. However, there is nothing quite like witnessing your child find their way in the world. What would you do, then, if a family member attempted to cause you needless distress in order to satisfy their own needs? The story that follows is an account of a frustrated sister. The Original Poster (OP) has two half-sisters. Since the two…
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Daughter Refuses to Go to Family Therapy With Parents Who Didn’t Raise Her, They Accuse Her of Being Stubborn and Unforgiving

Daughter Refuses to Go to Family Therapy With Parents Who Didn’t Raise Her, They Accuse Her of Being Stubborn and Unforgiving

Parents go above and beyond to ensure that their child has a fulfilling life. However, some parents find it difficult to put aside their problems in order to fully prioritize the physical and mental well-being of their children. So, how would you react if your parents assumed you had forgiven them after years of neglect? Would you seize the chance to cut short meaningless discussions, or would you confront them about their sly attempt to make amends? The story that follows is an account of a he…
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Grandparents Refuse to Call Their Granddaughter by Her True Name as They Believe It Is Not a 'Normal’ Name, Resulting Family Dispute

Grandparents Refuse to Call Their Granddaughter by Her True Name as They Believe It Is Not a 'Normal’ Name, Resulting Family Dispute

Your name has the ability to shape who you are by its strength and profundity. However, how would you feel if your grandparents forbade you from using your given name? The story that follows is recounted by a disappointed granddaughter. Once it was established that her mother could not support her, the Original Poster (OP) moved in with her maternal grandparents. All was okay for a while until the couple stated that they felt uncomfortable with the name that was given to her and that they would…
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'Stop crying wolf...': Woman Discovers That Her Sister Has Been Taking Advantage of Her Generosity by Using Her Money to Travel the World, a Family Dispute Ensues

'Stop crying wolf...': Woman Discovers That Her Sister Has Been Taking Advantage of Her Generosity by Using Her Money to Travel the World, a Family Dispute Ensues

The most significant thing in life is family. But sometimes it's unavoidable to pass judgment on people closest to you. The story that follows is an account of a frustrated sister. To the dismay of her parents, the Original Poster (OP) entered the sales industry shortly after high school. On the other hand, OP's sister went to college and has spent the last ten years pursuing a medical degree. That being said, OP's financial status is significantly more secure than her sister's because of her b…
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Woman Refuses to Change Her Last Name for Ex-husband Who Is Getting Remarried to a Demanding Fiancé: 'I don't care that it makes her uncomfortable'

Woman Refuses to Change Her Last Name for Ex-husband Who Is Getting Remarried to a Demanding Fiancé: 'I don't care that it makes her uncomfortable'

It makes perfect sense that not every marriage ends with a happy ever after. A completely distinct challenge arises, though, when one partner remarries and the new spouse is hostile toward the former spouse. The story that follows is an account of a dumbfounded ex-wife. Following a decade and a half of marriage, the Original Poster (OP) and her former spouse decided it was time to call it quits. They had three lovely children together and coexisted well. That all changed, though, when OP's ex-h…
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Parents Leave Daughter’s Wedding After Noticing She Refused to Wear the Gown That Her Estranged Step-Sister Had Made for Her

Parents Leave Daughter’s Wedding After Noticing She Refused to Wear the Gown That Her Estranged Step-Sister Had Made for Her

Family should come first at all times. But what would you do if your sister decided to design your wedding gown? In other words, the dress that you have been dreaming of since you were a little girl will now be in the hands of an aspiring seamstress… The story below is an account of a frustrated bride. The Original Poster (OP) tells the story of how her step-sister asked to design her wedding gown. OP was first hesitant to agree because the sister is by no means a trained wedding dress designer…
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Teacher Gets Fired After Denying Menstruating Teen Access to the Restroom, Internet Deems Teen's Protective Mother a Hero

Teacher Gets Fired After Denying Menstruating Teen Access to the Restroom, Internet Deems Teen's Protective Mother a Hero

Teens, especially young females, should be treated with grace and compassion. Given their daily struggles with drastic bodily changes, hormone imbalances, and, well, the bizarre social environment they live in, one would think that a person in a position of power would make an effort to lead by kindness and example. But in the story that follows, the exact opposite occurs. The Original Poster (OP) is the mother of a thirteen-year-old teenage girl. OP's daughter called one day, sobbing, saying t…
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Women Share Green Flags to Look Out for in Female Friendships, Leading to Wholesome Discussion

Women Share Green Flags to Look Out for in Female Friendships, Leading to Wholesome Discussion

Female friendships have great sway and impact. If we really, truly love you, we would stop at nothing to ensure your well-being. There's nothing like the genuine love between two friends who truly care about each other. Having said that, in the post below, a Redditor raises a key question that we have all been thinking about but have never dared to ask: 'What's a sign or trait that makes you want to be friends with another woman'. As I perused the post, I came across a lot of heartwarming, insi…
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'You had it coming...': Woman Insists on Bringing Kid to Child Free Party, Friend Refuses and Promptly Uninvites Her

'You had it coming...': Woman Insists on Bringing Kid to Child Free Party, Friend Refuses and Promptly Uninvites Her

Being a parent may require you to miss some of the events you used to be able to attend. In the end, though, how you interpret the situation, your willingness to make compromises, and the significance you place on other areas of your life will determine whether you regard yourself as a victim or simply as a mature adult. With her closest friends, The Original Poster (OP) is excited to celebrate her birthday. In honor of the birthday girl, two friends reserved a private room at a bar. However, i…
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Grandparents Defy Parents Wishes and Pierce Baby Girl’s Ears, Parents Vow to Never Allow Grandparents Near Baby Again, Family Dispute Ensues

Grandparents Defy Parents Wishes and Pierce Baby Girl’s Ears, Parents Vow to Never Allow Grandparents Near Baby Again, Family Dispute Ensues

Your parents undoubtedly want the best for you. They would never put you in danger and they would never, ever go against your wishes in an attempt to offend you or overstep your bounds. Having said that, how would you react if your parents attempted to decide on matters that would affect your child without first seeking your input? That's exactly what the story below is about. After giving birth to a baby girl, the Original Poster (OP) refuses to have her child's ears pierced, even though her p…
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'You're an embarrassment': Grandma’s Old School Views Get Her Kicked out of Daughter’s House Following Fight About Grandaughter Playing ‘Male’ Sports

'You're an embarrassment': Grandma’s Old School Views Get Her Kicked out of Daughter’s House Following Fight About Grandaughter Playing ‘Male’ Sports

Nowadays, women are not valued based on traits from a bygone era that defined femininity. Contemporary women have the liberty to showcase their individuality in any way they deem suitable and to advocate for their convictions. There are various ways to express oneself. While some women express who they are through dress or music, others do so through fashion. What follows is the story of a woman who is protective of her daughter. The Original Poster (OP) is a mother to a 13-year-old girl. OP's…
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‘The future is female’: Female Student Bravely Challenges the Myth Spread by Her Male Peers That Her Success Stems From ‘Pretty Privilege’

'The future is female’: Female Student Bravely Challenges the Myth Spread by Her Male Peers That Her Success Stems From ‘Pretty Privilege’

In the corporate world, men are the majority—or at least they were until bold female entrepreneurs and businesswomen ventured into the ring. However, as everyone knows, everything is fun and games until money is involved. So, what would you do if someone tried to minimize your abilities and potential solely because of your gender? Would you run away in fear, or would you put in even more effort to prove them wrong? The story that follows centers on a female academic who has been subjected to cr…
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‘Sorry not sorry’: Woman Refuses to Include Stepdaughter on Family Vacation, Despite Inviting the Rest of the Family

‘Sorry not sorry’: Woman Refuses to Include Stepdaughter on Family Vacation, Despite Inviting the Rest of the Family

Marriage is a sacred commitment that is entered into with eternity in mind. Occasionally, though, irreconcilable differences lead to the end of a marriage. Breakups are painful at best, but when kids are involved, matters get significantly more difficult… The story that follows is of a frustrated step mom. The Original Poster (OP) and her partner are both parents to children from previous relationships. OP has one child, whereas her now-husband, has three. After getting married, they successful…
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