You can’t help who you fall in love with, let alone who their family is. Either you and your partner's family align for the most part, or you don’t. If you don’t, things can get awkward at best and become a dumpster fire at worst. People often get a little sensitive when it comes to their family, and sometimes it's better to hold your tongue than to get involved in the delicate workings of how a family operates. We wish this girlfriend had gotten that type of advice before she so ‘kindly’ volun…