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Gesture - "I'm so tired of it though and believe he can wash a few dishes every now and then to help me out. He points out that he already told me if he can't use the dishwasher he's not doing any dishes, but washing a dish by hand doesn't take long."

AITA: 'I don't trust my partner with the dishwasher, but still expect him to do the dishes by hand.'

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He told my mom and girlfriend about how I use my phone to automate when I text them or send gifts, and now they're both really pissed at me. They both say they felt like I had been putting in so much effort to be thoughtful and caring despite how busy I am, but it's all just been a facade and I'm just using my phone to automate it all.

'Your efforts mean nothing to us': Man Schedules Thoughtful Messages to Girlfriend and Mother, They Throw a Fit When They Find Out He Doesn't Spontaneously Think of Them Throughout His Busy Day

I hate house chores and I would rather buy homemaking gadgets and hire staff no matter the cost than have to do chores myself. I told my bf's mom all this and it caused an argument that eventually ruined dinner and in extension our visit.

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She said she stopped doing it because she didn't want it to affect her career, and she thought I knew about it already. I told a few of my friends about it. Long story short, the photos somehow got into the hands of the school board, and Sarah was fired for "unprofessional behavior". Sarah is devastated and blames me for ruining her career.

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Tell Us You're Still In Love With Your Ex Without Saying You're Still In Love With Your Ex | The big thing is both of them come from different backgrounds Financially Olivias life has been good Josie grew up in poverty both her parents OD when she young Josie her friend talked about the kids who get in good colleges because their parents have a lot of money I told her she was just jealous of Olivia again and maybe if Josie had balanced her time better she could have made it in a school like that

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'look who cares about me again' | thumbnail reads - I then asked if he would still like to attend the event with me to take his mind off of things to which he responded that he doesn’t like the artistes performing so he’d rather go another event. I said No Problem, I will go with my stepsister alone. He got upset and hung up.

His first words were 'look who cares about me again': Woman Goes to Reddit Wondering If She Should Have Ditched Her Step-Sister Over Boyfriends Diagnosis

When High School Drama Follows You into Adulthood | caption reads - "I got in touch with a nanny agency and they matched us to someone who lives local. When the day came around and we met her, it turned out that my wife already knew Sarah. It was really awkward. I wasn't sure how they knew each other until afterwards. My wife told me that back when she was in high school, her boyfriend at the time cheated on her with Sarah who was in her class."

When High School Drama Follows You into Adulthood: "My wife told me that back when she was in high school, her boyfriend at the time cheated on her with Sarah who was in her class."

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Mic Drop: Guy Tells His Girlfriend She’s Gross for Not Shaving Her Legs, She Responds That She Will When He Does | screenshot reads - He told me that it was unhygienic to not shave and we argued back and forth about the issue when I finally told him that I'd only start shaving my legs if he shaved his first. He called me immature and petty, whereas I think he's being super fixated on this weird thing.

Reddit Sarcasm at its Finest: Guy Tells His Girlfriend She’s Gross for Not Shaving Her Legs, She Responds That She Will When He Does

The Fine Line Between Reasonable and Controlling: The Classic Tale of "I'll Be the One to Change Him" | caption reads - He’s recently told me that I can’t message him at work because he’s busy, so I don’t message him and when he’s not home by dinner time, I ask him why he wouldn’t tell me that he’s not coming home for dinner.

The Fine Line Between Reasonable and Controlling: The Classic Tale of "I'll Be the One to Change Him"

Man Ruins His Own Surprise Party Over Getting His Dream Laptop From His Better Earning Girlfriend | screenshot reads - usd on it. When I pulled her aside to our bedroom and asked her how much she spent on it she was like "don't worry about it honey I love you and want you to be happy" but I wasn't going for it and thought she was trying to show me up in front of all our friends. When she tried to kiss me I pushed her away and said why do you always try to flex your money on me?

Man Ruins His Own Surprise Party Over Getting His Dream Laptop From His Better Earning Girlfriend

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Oh, No He Didn't: How Not to Respond to Your Girlfriend Being a Sore Loser | screenshot reads - AITA for telling my girlfriend to accept that I am smarter than her?

Oh, No He Didn't: How Not to Respond to Your Girlfriend Being a Sore Loser

"AITA For Walking Out of a Restaurant on my GF?" - or - How to Tell Your Boyfriend is a Misogynistic AH | she works as a nurse so she then explained to me the type of incision they make for that and how it'll leave a scar. I then, as a joke, said "at least she'll still be tight down there."

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Man Goes to Reddit Asking If He’s An AH for Asking to be Paid for Babysitting His Own Daughter, Gets Roasted for Pushing Wife Into the Arms of Their Neighbour

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