Breakups are never easy, but they're especially harder to get over when you don't have any type of closure. In an ideal world, you'd be able to sit down with your ex and have a civilized chat about why the relationship didn't work out. You'd each express your feelings, maybe cry, definitely hug it out, and shed the emotional baggage from the relationship. But life rarely works out like that, and as I've learned over many years of heartbreak, creating your own closure is the only real way to move on. But closure is relative; does it mean going to therapy? Keying his car? How about a good old fashioned breakup letter? Or, since we're in the age of social media, a public letter on Instagram, letting him know just how disappointing you found him. Thanks to the Instagram account To The Guys I've Dated, now you can do just that. Women everywhere are submitting letters to the disappointing men they have dated (or kinda dated) to get the closure they need. Each week we bring you a new selection of some of the funniest ones, and this latest haul is just as funny and brutal as all the previous ones we've published.
When it comes to dating, everyone needs to kiss a few frogs before finding their prince charming. And by frogs, we mean men who will let you down, screw you over, or generally disappoint you in some way or another. We've all had the 'pleasure' of dating, or kinda dating these men, but hey, at least they make for fun stories to tell our girlfriends, right? And now, instead of just venting about them, you can take it one step further and write them a public letter of disappointment, with the Instagram account To The Guys I've Dated. They help women get the closure they need after kissing yet another crappy frog by publishing short letters written by the women who dated them. Here is the latest collection of these hilariously sad but relatable letters, which might inspire you to submit one of your own.
If you're a woman, then chances are, you've either been in a relationship with or at least had a date with a man who made you lose the will to live. Men possess a unique talent for really grinding your gears and getting under your skin- and not in a good way—amirite ladies? Imagine the satisfaction you'd get by writing him a letter expressing what you felt about him and posting it online for all the world to see (including, hopefully, his mom). Well, now you can, courtesy of the Instagram account To The Guys I've Dated, who post funny and real letters of disappointment from girls to their "exes." Each week, we bring you a fresh batch of these letters, so dive in and scroll through this latest haul, and then check out last week's in case you missed them.
We've all been through breakups where all we wanted to do was send our piece-of-sh*t ex a message telling them exactly what we thought of them. Because, well... closure. But, whether our friends convinced us not to, or our sense of pride got the better of us, we held back (until we had that second glass of wine). But now, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated has your back when it comes to getting the closure you need from any men who let you down. Simply write your ex a short letter, let them post it, and hope his whole family (and new GF) sees it! Simple.
When it came to romance (or anything else, for that matter), 2020 wasn't exactly the best year. Thankfully, 2021 has made an appearance, bringing with it endless possibilities in the 'love' department'. Ladies, it's time to cleanse your spirit (and lady parts) from all the f*ck boys you left behind in 2020. New year, new you! And just in case you need it, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated has your back when it comes to getting the closure you need from any men who let you down. All you need to do is write them a letter, explaining what your disappointing ex did to you, and they'll publish it on their account, naming and shaming him for the world to see. Closure never felt so sexy!
I think I speak for most people when I say dating in 2020 has been an all-round sh*tty experience. I mean, as if the logistics of socially-distance dating or the nightmare of figuring out how to bubble up with your f*ck buddy during a pandemic wasn't stressful enough. When you throw some idiot men into the mix, and you've got yourself a whole new level of 2020 dumpster fire. Luckily, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated is here to the rescue. They help women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the exes or almost exes who have disappointed them in some way, by naming and shaming them online. So ladies, if a certain f*ck boy has f*cked you over one too many times (and let's face it, one time is too many), then write them a letter and hope their mom or current girlfriend sees it. Here's to karma being a b*tch, and to the end of 2020.
Have you ever dated a man who was, how can I put this, less than satisfactory? Someone you wouldn't recommend to a friend, no matter how desperate that friend was? Well, then you're in good company because welcome to being a woman. And if you ever wanted to let those men know how short-changed you felt after dating them, then welcome to the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated. They help women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week we bring you a fresh batch of letters from women who wish to name and shame these men, giving them the karma they deserve.
Nowadays, finding a decent man can be a challenge. Between the f*ck 's boys, the guys with commitment issues, the mommy's boys, and the straight-up liars, women find themselves in a constant state of frustration. Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Together with them, we bring you a weekly collection of letters from these women, helping them name and shame their disappointing man. Here are this week's letters.
In today's modern dating sh*t show, it's important to take as much control as you can. To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated is the Instagram account that helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we post a weekly collection of letters from these women, helping in the naming and shaming process. Because if there's one thing we hate, it's a f*ck boy. And if there's one thing we love, it's supporting women to live their best lives. Welcome to this week's haul, which is just as funny, savage, and slightly heartbreaking as the last.
If I could sum up 2020 in one word, it would be "disappointing." And nothing makes a bad year worse than a bunch of f*ck boys who screw you over (see what I did there?) and break your heart. Ladies, the time has come to name and shame all the men out there who have made you lose hope in dating, love, and, quite frankly, the universe. Instagram account 'To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated' helps women get the closure they need by publishing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them somehow. And let's be honest, it's not that hard for a man to disappoint a woman. Here is this week's selection of hilarious, brutal, and slightly heartbreaking letters that might inspire you to write your own.
The concept of getting closure is a funny thing. Don't get me wrong; everyone wants to move on after a relationship ends. Being free of any residual emotional attachment or pain is essential in achieving this (speaking from A LOT of experience). But there are many ways to accomplish this, ranging from sitting back and letting karma do its thing to angrily keying your exes car. Nestled healthily somewhere in the middle of those two ends of the spectrum is shaming your disappointing ex-boyfriend on Instagram for the world (and hopefully their moms) to see. That's right, the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated allows women to get the closure they need by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we feature a new batch of these hilarious letters for your viewing pleasure. Scroll through, laugh at these ladies' expenses, and then head over to last week's in case you missed them.
Ladies, have you ever been on a really sh*tty date with a man and wished you were home with your cat instead? Have you ever wasted your good years on a man who couldn't, and frankly wouldn't commit? Do you ever wish you hadn't swiped right to that guy on Tinder who ended up giving you the worst sex of your life? If the answer to any of those is yes, then check out the Instagram account To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated, which allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. We've teamed up with them to bring you a fresh collection of letters each week, naming and shaming the disappointing men out there. And who knows, they might even inspire you to write in one of your own!
Each week, we bring you a hilarious collection of letters written by women to men who have f*cked them over. Whether it's one date or a full-on relationship, they feel wronged by a man in some way or another, and it's time to name and shame. Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — the Instagram page that allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way — welcome to your latest haul of treats. This week's collection is just as hilarious as the last and makes us wonder when the day will come that men will finally. Stop. Disappointing. Women! Scroll through for some laughs (or tears, depending on how you look at it).
Since the dawn of time, men have been screwing women over. And I don't mean leaving them sexually satisfied kind of screw. I'm talking about sleeping with them and not calling them back, sort of screw. But, we aren't in the dawn of time anymore, and women no longer have to depend on men to hunt for food and provide for the family while putting up with all sorts of crappy behavior. Now, women are taking back the reigns and calling men out for their bullsh*t, as publically as possible. And what is more public than writing a personalized letter of shame and putting it on Instagram for the world (which hopefully includes his mom) to see?
Together with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — the Instagram page that allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way — we bring you the latest haul of goodies. Scroll through these hilarious letters of disappointment and get an insight into the shitshow that is modern-day dating. And then check out last week's haul for some more dating debacles.
They say honesty is the best policy; however, it's not always easy to tell someone face-to-face how you feel after they've hurt or disappointed you. Especially when it comes to love. But the need for closure is real, and sometimes it's easier to write a letter, text, or email to the d-bag who screwed you over, letting them know what you think of them. And if that message was public, for the world (aka, for his friends, or even his mom), to see, it might feel even more cathartic.
Now, you can do that with To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — an Instagram page that allows women to get closure by writing open letters to the men (exes or almost exes) who have disappointed them in some way. Each week, we bring you the latest letters women have submitted, and each collection is as funny as the last. Check out this week's haul, and then head over to last week's for some more laughs.
2020 might have been a nightmare of a year, but it's certainly given us some good stories when it comes to relationships. With ghosting at an all-time high, quarantine dating becoming the norm (aka, surviving on copious amounts of phone sex), and people generally not knowing what's going on anymore, the stories keep coming. But nothing makes a sh*tty year even more sh*tty than letting a f*ckboy into your life and him inevitably screwing you over (pun intended).
So why not name and shame him, using To The Guys I've (Kinda) Dated — the Instagram account where women submit open letters to the disappointing men they've been romantically involved with. It's not quite the same as turning up at his house in the middle of the night with a mob of angry men in tow, but who knows; it might just give you the closure you need.
